Between You and Love

Where Christianity, the Enneagram, and Integral Spirituality Meet

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We often assume that an elusive something or someone “out there” is keeping us away from the Love that is always present. Yet, it is simply our own unconscious contraction rooted in our personality type structure, which shuts us down from receiving Love’s embrace. The psalmist writes:

For You alone my soul in stillness waits…
So I have called out to You in
my heart…
Because your wondrous Love is
Life in me...
I would radiate your Love
as I live
Becoming a blessing to others
in gratitude to You.

In this course, we invite you to cultivate a capacity to receive Love through learning contemplative method and the Enneagram which identifies nine distinct ways we contract from receiving Love.

About Between You and Love

Between You and Love is an innovative extension to the Coming Home web course that combines Christian contemplative practice with the Narrative Tradition of the Enneagram in order to uncover and overcome your unique obstacles to giving and receiving love in your life.

The question "What stands between me and love?" is central for all of us who are trying to live a more fulfilling and compassionate life. This web course will help deepen your relationships and explore what is working for and against you in your quest to love and be loved.

Whether you took the original Coming Home course or not, this new offering from Leslie will help you situate yourself exactly where you are in your own field of love.

Between You and Love is inspired by everything Leslie has learned from leading the Coming Home community over the last several years, and for the first time, includes her considerable knowledge of the Enneagram as applied to the Christian tradition, allowing you to hone in on your particular wants, needs, and patterns of loving with incredible accuracy.

Contemplative method through the lens of the Enneagram not only cultivates presence, but also invites you into compassion which is a state of feeling energetically connected. Compassion is far more challenging than presence for it strikes deeply at your own conditioned nature. Compassion encompasses both subject and object and we recognize, as we listen to people articulate their own experience of their type, that we are deeply connected.

It’s a practice. It’s cultivating spiritual capacity. It’s a shift from understanding in your head into an experience of Love in your heart.

Welcome to Between You and Love.

This web course includes:

  • Seven audio teachings from Leslie
  • Eight audio reflection or guided meditation practices led by Leslie.
  • A special video interview with Helen Palmer, founder of the Narrative Tradition of the Enneagram
  • Three special audio presentations on the Enneagram Heart, Head and Body Centers.
  • Nine audio dialogues between Leslie and individuals representing the nine Enneagram types.
  • A special text excerpt from Paul Smith’s book Integral Christianity exploring States of Consciousness
  • PDF handouts for reflection exercises.


Save $145 when you enroll in both Coming Home and Between You and Love web courses.
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Your Instructor


Leslie Hershberger
Leslie Hershberger

Leslie Hershberger is a natural teacher, facilitator and writer who integrates the Enneagram in the Narrative Tradition, three centered contemplative practice and Integral theory to help people and groups understand themselves, others and the world through a deeper, more expansive lens.

She also created the internationally popular web course Coming Home with Ken Wilber and David Riordan of Integral Life which helps Christians develop an evolutionary Integral Christian practice that harnesses the power of self-emptying love as embodied by the Christ. With a background in education, theology and integral theory, Leslie aspires to teach, value and embody the Haitian proverb, "I see from where I stand."


Course Curriculum


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Frequently Asked Questions


When does the course start and finish?
The course starts now and never ends! It is a completely self-paced online course - you decide when you start and when you finish.
How long do I have access to the course?
How does lifetime access sound? After purchase, you have unlimited access to this course for as long as you like - across any and all devices you own.
What if I am unhappy with the course?
We would never want you to be unhappy! If you are unsatisfied with your purchase, contact us in the first 30 days and we will give you a full refund.

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